The Week Ahead 12 June 2020
15 Jul 2020

- The need for a particular friendship bond may be stronger in one child than another. This can skew the relationship and result in something that resembles a ‘master-servant’ imbalance, often accompanied by underlying issues of a lack of respect and a strong desire to please on the part of one child. This is not a healthy relationship and should be explored further.
- Is there an age disparity, and is it perhaps a cause of concern? Friendships across year groups are to be encouraged, but again, if one party is more dependent on the friendship than the other, longer-term issues can arise.
- Children do not all need to be friends with one another, just as adults do not all need to be friends. Being friendly, with an emphasis on shared values, can be easier than forcing youngsters to be friends. It also allows children to forge other friendships and can help to break the often-damaging exclusivity that some develop.


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