The Greatest Gift for Your Child

Lisa Li
Co-Head of Early Years
As an Early Years leader with over 18 years of experience, I deeply understand the mix of emotions parents feel when sending their little ones to nursery. I remember my own child’s first day—I, too, was anxious weeks in advance. But now, watching generations of children thrive here, I am more certain than ever: nursery is one of life’s most precious gifts for a child.

Why Nursery is Essential for Growth
The Golden Window for Brain Development
Research shows that 90% of a child’s brain develops before age six. In nursery, structured early learning activities—through play, music, art, and more—act like "mental gymnastics," nurturing their cognitive, emotional, and creative potential.
The First Step Towards Independence
Here, children learn to feed themselves, dress, and tidy up. Many start unable to open their water bottles, yet within months, they not only manage on their own but also help their peers. This growth is something home environments alone cannot replicate.
Their First Social Classroom
In a group setting, children learn to share, take turns, and cooperate. They navigate small conflicts and form genuine friendships—experiences that become the foundation for their future relationships.




On Separation Anxiety:
What We've Learned
Parents often ask, "What if my child cries?" Separation anxiety is like stumbling when learning to walk—a natural part of growing. Our observations show:
90% of children adjust within 1–2 weeks.
Over half show significant improvement by the third day.
Nearly all grow to love the nursery within a month in the Nest.
The ideal age to start is 2–3 years old, when children are curious explorers yet capable of adapting. Like fledglings, they need both the safety of the nest and the freedom to spread their wings.



Practical Advice for Parents
Frame It as a Milestone
Instead of saying, "Nursery is so fun!" try: "You’re growing up—just like Mummy and Daddy go to work, you get to go to nursery!" This fosters pride, not just excitement.
Prepare Them Gradually
Read books about nursery (e.g., "Welly's first day at School"), and when passing by, share positive stories. Familiarity eases the transition.
Trust Their Resilience
Children often surprise us. What feels like your separation struggle may actually be theirs—until they discover their own strength in the group.
Nursery is not just a child's first lesson in life—it’s also a parent’s journey in letting go. Together, let’s nurture their courage and curiosity. Here, they gain not just knowledge, but the confidence to embrace the world ahead.

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